A Review by a Sex Coach of Courtney Milan’s ‘The Duke Who Chose Not To’

Oh la la! So, I recently dove into the pages of a little page-turner called “The Duke Who Didn’t” by the fab Courtney Milan. And darling, let me tell you, it’s not just a sweet love story—it’s got some seriously spicy moments that I’m all too happy to see shining a light on the real nitty-gritty of intimacy. You see, I often serve up sizzling advice to my sex coaching clients, yet these real-life scenarios are rarely depicted in pop culture. Let’s talk about it!

How often do we stumble upon a couple in a rom-com, all tangled up in the throes of passion, and somehow never addressing the elephant in the room: sex, contraception, and good ol’ STIs? We always get those swoon-worthy romantic heroes who seem to have the moves down pat, and **never** a hint of anxiety about their… performance. And ladies? Forget about needing a warm-up! We’re supposed to be ready for the wild ride at a moment’s notice, right? All while achieving blissful orgasms without even a cheeky additional touch. *Can you say unrealistic?*

Lemme spill this tea: it’s no wonder we’ve felt so much pressure for sex to be flawless when we grew up believing it would all just magically fall into place. But darling, there’s a goldmine of wisdom to snag from the pages of “The Duke Who Didn’t.”

First off, our leading lady takes the reins and boldly expresses her desire for a romp—none of that passive waiting for Prince Charming nonsense. Honey, take note!

• It’s not just the fellas who crave and need sex.
• No need to wait for a guy to make the first move—go ahead, get that ball rolling!
• It’s absolutely fabulous for a woman to initiate. Go on, you firecracker!

Now, let’s not skip over the male character’s adorable nervousness as he confesses he’s a virgin, despite the heroine’s assumptions. His honesty is a refreshing dish served hot!

• It’s okay to be a bit inexperienced and unsure—none of us are born experts, sweetheart!
• Being vulnerable is sexy; it brings you closer.
• You don’t have to don a superhero cape to be cherished and adored.
• Sharing your insecurities? That’s like handing your partner a golden ticket to do the same—and oh boy, does it strengthen the bond!

Then we get to the juiciest part—our hero goes down on the leading lady, and let’s just say she doesn’t hold back! This moment shouts from the rooftops:

• Your pleasure matters, babe, and a partner who cares will prioritize it!
• Warm-ups are where the magic begins. Trust me, they serve both parties oh-so-well!
• Your entire body is a masterpiece—celebrate every inch of it with abandon!
• Seeing a woman enjoy herself? Totally *hot*! Let’s not forget how freeing it feels to fully receive pleasure without the pressure to reciprocate right away.

Finally, during some penetrative fun, our heroine asserts herself, pausing and switching up positions until she finds her groove—leading to a second mind-blowing orgasm. Talk about teamwork!

• Speak up! Don’t settle for anything less than sensational.
• Listen to your body—it’s wiser than we think!
• Feel free to ask your partner to pause or adjust; you’re in this together, loves!
• Remember, it’s totally cool if you don’t nail it on the first go.
• Your partner is your ultimate teammate—let’s figure it out together, with passion and plenty of giggles!

In conclusion, I can hardly wait to see more steamy scenes that put women’s pleasure front and center, encouraging real talk, authentic connections, and tons of fun. Can you imagine the kind of sexy adventures the next generation will explore when they grow up with these empowering messages? My heart races at the thought!